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The Tale of the Dark Feet

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I am currently at 32 weeks, and for the last couple of weeks, have not had the pleasure of having a clean pair of soles on my feet. Before I got pregnant, my soles were a smooth shade of soft pink, very inviting I must say. But those are yester days.

Today, while I was taking a nap (which I often do for the better part of the day), the hubby had a glimpse of my soles and let out a frightening shriek that immediately awoke me from my snooze. Now, if a man lets out a shriek like that one, then you know that something’s definitely amiss. The hubby was expressing horror at the color of the soles of my feet, which I must say were somewhat between a shade of dark tan and black, which is not very nice for a gracious lady like myself. Major problem though was the hubby’s insistence that the soles were ashen black, which was not a very nice thing to hear, though I confess he was right.

Thing is, I have been wearing, on a daily basis, these Maasai sandals that are soooooooo comfortable I cannot imagine myself in any other shoes. The sandals are flat and ‘expandable’, because when my feet decide to swell, which they often do, the Maasai sandals are quick to accommodate the swelling, unlike other shoes I’ve tried before. Now, walking around this dusty town of Nairobi has the effect of getting my feet to be a non-pleasant sight at the end of the day, comparable to those of a street urchin’s. Not good at all. It doesn’t help much that my bathroom floor is all tiles, I miss those old earthen bathroom floors we grew up in that were as rough as sandpaper, where I would have easily scrubbed my feet on them and they would have remained luscious pink. I can reach neither my feet nor my soles anymore to give them a good cleaning, so the best I can do is, with much struggle, pass my face towel over them when taking a shower at the end of the day. But judging by the hubby’s shriek, clearly this is not having the desired effect.

Anyway, the hubby has pitifully offered to scrub them soles and feet for me today, seeing as the trips to the salon for a pedicure are becoming more difficult as the days go by as my beautician is quite some kilometers away and I simply don’t have the energy to drive that far in this sweltering March heat. I have been using this beautician of mine for the last 14 years, and I cannot fathom the possibility of starting anew with someone else.  All those years, no one else has ever touched my nails for a manicure or pedicure. It’s like I’ve been in a marriage with her, she knows and understands my needs and body so well, I am at a loss at what I would do without her. I have been contemplating visiting nearby beauty parlors to get the service done, but I am too chicken to allow anyone else touch my nails. I actually get goose bumps when I think about it. So I guess I will have to suffer the consequences of dark tan/black feet and soles. For now, I hope the hubby will make it a weekly habit to scrub them soles. I will soon update you on that.

Why Am I Always Hungry? Pregnancy Tales

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I am in my last trimester and my cousin, who I haven’t seen in a couple of months has just sent me a text message saying “You need to stop eating!”

Now, this my cousin is very worried about my huge appetite. Thing is, ever since the beginning of my pregnancy, I have been eating ALL the time. It’s as though I have this bottomless pit in my stomach, such that regardless of how much I put in, it just goes nowhere! I had normal eating habits before the pregnancy, but the extreme hunger pangs I have been experiencing throughout my pregnancy have oftentimes made me think I am losing my mind. I mean, I am permanently STARVING. Regardless of what and how much I eat, I still remain famished. The amount of food I would normally pack in a whole day during my pre-pregnancy days, nowadays I have already packed by noon.

So what I have been doing for the better part of my pregnancy is spending lots of time in the fridge and the microwave. My hunger cycle is every 1.5 hours, and should I fail to munch on something I feel dizzy and quite sick. At the beginning, I would bite on snacks like cereals, nuts and fruits, but I soon realized that these were not doing me any good, as the hunger would be back again in another 30 minutes or so. My body (or is it my baby) needs serious food, not snacks. So what I’ve been doing is carrying lots of food to the office. Rich African foods, not snacks or fast food. And that’s what keeps me going every 1.5 hours or so.

My workmates have taken to taking jibes at me because of my constant feeding. What though surprised me the other day is when a fellow colleague, just five weeks behind me in her pregnancy told me that she doesn’t feed as much. That she can have breakfast at 10am, and the next meal she can eat would be at 3pm. I almost collapsed! I absolutely could not relate to what she was saying. Me, I would have long expired by now, if I did the same that is. But I guess we are all different. Me, I’m a HUGE feeder. Her, she’s a small feeder. God bless us both.

By the way, did I tell you that my hunger pangs wake me up at night? This used to happen on a daily basis throughout my first trimester. I mean, I don’t know what was worse, my heavy sleep appetite, or my heavy food appetite. Despite being in a deep slumber, the hunger pangs would wake me up and hard as I tried to ignore them, I would find myself tripping over the bed in a mad dash to the kitchen. I however don’t recall escapades to the fridge at night during my second trimester, thank God. But guess what? The interrupted sleep is back, now in my third trimester! In between my frequent trips to the loo, I have been making regular stopovers in the fridge department as well.

And this is what prompted my cousin to tell me to stop eating. Well I would have dismissed had she not had a pregnancy experience, but her son is a year old so let’s just say she’s been where I am. But on the ‘stop eating’ advise, I will have to dismiss her. Because I will surely expire if I do not eat. I can sort out the weight issues later :).

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